When Janet Lembke's mother was a sprightly seventy-eight years old, she had made her daughter promise to help her die when the time came. Pills with a stiff bloody Mary and a hug. But when that time came many years later, it was not so simple. Her mother had had a series of strokes that had rendered her incapable of rational thought, and Lembke couldn't, in fact, help her mother die. Watching her mother suspended in a life that wasn't really living prompted Lembke to wonder what could be done. How do we deal with life's end? How might we best approach it? Does human life hold an intrinsic sacredness? How best may those of us who have our wits about us care for old, frail people whose minds are lost forever in the shadows? This book is a result of her quest for answers, of impeccable research into the world of caregiving to the dying.
She examines death by choice--suicide, assisted and otherwise; advance medical directives; the bioethics of chasing death down by withdrawal of life support; dementia and how a caregiver may cope with it; Hospice; and the quality of life. The eponymous chapter explores ways to determine quality and discovers objective criteria. Lembke interviewed many people and tells their stories. Among them are two women who helped a mother die, a rabbi, a Muslim bioethicist, and a man, survivor of not one but two kidney transplants, who worked with Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. The book concludes with a list of resources, like the Alzheimer's Association, The Stroke Network, and Life Line, a device for summoning help. Notes and a bibliography follow the resource list.
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About the Author:
JANET LEMBKE is the author of fourteen highly acclaimed books, including Despicable Species (page TK), Skinny Dipping (page TK), and Dangerous Birds (page TK). She lives in Staunton, Virginia.
Review:
In Praise of Janet Lembke's previous books:
"Lembke is one of today's finest nature writers."
--Library Journal (for Dangerous Birds)
"Writing with wit and insight..." --Publishers Weekly (for Despicable Species)
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- PublisherUNKNO
- Publication date2004
- ISBN 10 1592281281
- ISBN 13 9781592281282
- BindingHardcover
- Edition number1
- Number of pages256