Why are men so afraid of showing their feelings? What scares men about commitment? Blackboard bestselling author William July II tackles these age-old questions, revealing secrets that every woman wants to know about her man, and every man needs to know about himself. He explains how boys are conditioned to become emotionally closed off, leaving them incapable of sharing their feelings or participating fully in relationships--they are like the Tin Man in The Wizard of Oz.
Taking a realistic, down-to-earth approach, July goes on to provide a step-by-step program for men who want to change, and for women who want to help the men in their lives overcome the Tin Man syndrome. Reading his words is as comforting as talking to your best friend, as enlightening as listening to a wise teacher. His book will help you to:
Recognize a Tin Man
Understand the real reasons why a man fears intimacy
See through the tactics men use to avoid commitment and relationships
Discover a man's biggest worries about relationships
Identify the five situations in which even the most emotionally numb man will share his feelings
Help a Tin Man change his life
At the end of each chapter you'll find thought-provoking questions and self-improvement exercises for both men and women. Understanding the Tin Man is a much-needed voice of reason on the battlefield of the sexes.
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From the Back Cover:
Are you afraid of intimacy?
Do you fear commitment?
Or do these questions make you think of someone close to you? If you (or someone you know) would reply "True" to the following statements, this book is for you.
True or False:
1. The best way to make up after an argument is sex.
2. My favorite way to celebrate is by having sex.
3. Sex is my preferred method of easing my mind and relaxing.
4. Coming from a girlfriend/wife, the words "We need to talk" make me uncomfortable.
5. For an evening to be intimate, it must involve sex.
6. A man should always earn more than his wife/girlfriend.
7. Married women shouldn't want or need to work.
8. It's my job to do the driving when I'm with a woman.
9. Birth control is only the woman's concern.
10. Women need a man's help when making big decisions.
See inside for the rest of the quiz...
About the Author:
William July II is a bestselling author and motivational speaker, and a former patrol officer with the metro police in Houston. In between writing and lecturing, July is pursuing a master's degree in theology and counseling, and he is also a writer-in-residence for Houston's Writers in the Schools program. He lives in Houston with his wife, Jamey Lacy.
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- PublisherDoubleday
- Publication date2000
- ISBN 10 038549663X
- ISBN 13 9780385496636
- BindingHardcover
- Edition number1
- Number of pages224
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